I bought one plant in the first year or two of marriage. A very low-maintenance philodendron that is still a member of my household, right now perched on top of my refrigerator, thriving at over 20 years old. This faithful plant tells you it is thirsty by drooping, and perks right back up when watered. They are notoriously hard to kill and are very forgiving when experiencing some neglect. I bought a second one a few years later, and it is still enjoying a lovely life as well. After that, I didn’t buy any more plants. I didn’t think I was a plant person, even though my mother has always had many beautiful healthy plants and cares for them with consistency and intuition. I knew my propensity for overwatering and underwatering, that endless cycle, much the same way I treat my own body and soul. I didn’t want that responsibility.
About seven or so years ago, I was looking at some photos of homes online and noticed how much a room came to life when a plant was added. Plants transform a space and don’t cost much money to do it. I started adding a few plants to every room. I was amazed at how much they softened a space, brightened the room, added some mystical living energy that felt invigorating. I was hooked! I try looking for plants that need low to medium light because they seem to be the easiest. I thought that just taking care of one or two plants would be my proving ground, but it turns out, the more plants I have, the better I take care of them. When you only have one or two tucked away, it’s easy to forget about them, but when every room has two-three plants, you notice and enjoy them and know that they need care.
I take a silver IKEA watering can, fill it with cool water, and water my plants every Friday. It used to be on Mondays, but now, as I ready for the weekend, I give the plants some love. I give them just enough to moisten. I tend towards a little underwatering. Sometimes I take the leftover water cups from my kids at the end of the day and add them to plants in my kitchen and dining room, little sips to slake their thirst. I am not a guru when it comes to plant care. I don’t baby them or analyze their needs and have been known just to throw some out or give them away if they are too “fussy” for me. I have a dear friend whom I call my “plant nanny” that has helped repot and divide some of my prolific plants. I do my best, give a little bit of fertilizer once in a while, and enjoy the calming beauty they bring to my rooms.
Even adding one small plant will bring you joy. I was walking through Publix a few days ago and they had some lovely houseplants near their florals. My eye went directly to one that I thought would be a nice addition to my bedroom desk. What a difference! It enlivened that whole area and brings a smile to my face every time I walk in. Sometimes you don’t need a room renovation or expensive new throw pillows, but just the addition of some plant life to see some transformation. Supporting locally owned plant shops is a wonderful way to invest in the community and to get advice from horticulturists that really know their stuff. I only wish I had started shopping at the one near my home sooner!
I hope your Monday is filled with life and energy, renewal and hope. I took a lot of time to rest over the weekend and feel so much better emotionally and energetically. Taking this tumultuous season in stride is the work we keep doing, recognizing what we feel and experience will morph and change, ups and downs, but in the end, all shall be well.
Peace and Plants to you,
Aimee
You've inspired me to go find some plants!
I too, use my kiddos water cups to water the plants I have in my kitchen. Funny! I'm going to have to get myself a philodendron now!